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Why modern couples are reconsidering prenups

Like Sharna Burgess, couples are evolving their prenup views. They're now practical tools for trust and financial security.

First Editorial Team

May 15, 2025

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Changing the Narrative Around Prenups

The story of Sharna Burgess and Brian Austin Green highlights a growing trend: couples want to make their own choices, not leave them up to the state. On Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin, Burgess recently admitted she used to think a prenup meant “you’re preparing for [the marriage] to fail.” However, her perspective changed when she realized that, without a prenup, state laws could end up deciding how assets are divided if things don’t work out. “I think protecting yourself is a beautiful thing, and knowing that there is security and comfort there in that, and that everything is fair and you’ve made the decisions. I think it’s incredibly smart,” she said.

Transparency and Communication: The Keys to a Healthy Financial Relationship

Burgess and Green practice a “yours, mine, and ours” approach to money. They each maintain their own finances but also contribute to a joint fund for shared expenses. For Burgess, it’s all about having open conversations about their financial state.This approach fosters trust and avoids misunderstandings that can arise from financial secrecy.

How First Empowers Couples

At First, we understand that honest conversations about money are essential for a strong partnership. Our services are designed to help couples navigate these discussions with confidence:

Prenup Planning Made Simple: We demystify the prenup process, providing expert guidance so you can create an agreement that reflects your unique values and goals.
Financial Transparency Tools: Our platform offers resources and templates for managing joint and individual finances, inspired by the “yours, mine, and ours” philosophy.
Expert Support: Whether you’re just starting the conversation or ready to draft your agreement, our team is here to answer questions and support you every step of the way.

Take Control of Your Future: Together

As Burgess and Green exemplify, taking proactive steps isn’t about expecting the worst. It’s about protecting what you’re building together, through collaboration - the ultimate demonstration of the mutual respect that grounds your relationship. Start your journey toward financial clarity and peace of mind. Visit ThisFirst.com to learn how we can help you and your partner create a solid foundation for your future.

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